Being single & dating is super hard!
Single women don’t want to be embarrassed in front of their friends anymore than a woman who’s in a relationship does!
We don’t want to have only adventures of sex to tell our friends!
We want to talk about how you came in & brought us some flowers, took us out, how you try to get to know our heart, how you love us just when we are, that you have your own mind and that you take us just how we are.
We want to build with someone, love someone unconditionally, hold down & be held down, ALL THAT!
We are humans with feelings too & people need to remember we sre not these heartless, emotionless, "crazy", lonely people they peg us as!
Y'all better stop acting like it's something wrong with us, we're expecting too much and needing too much before you miss your blessing!
You can definitely switch gears with someone who you allowed to do things you usually don’t tolerate.
Don’t let anybody tell you something like, “That's not how we were in the beginning so why are you trying to switch up now?”
The answer to that is you let them try you long enough! ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!
Sometimes we try to compromise because we feel like we’re being unreasonable with our requests and because we really love somebody, but never second-guess your own judgment.
Dealbreakers are just that; dealbreakers.!
Don't let somebody tell you that you don’t deserve the best treatment because you don’t look a certain way, or because you don’t do things exactly the way they want you to all the time, or you don't allow them to treat you a certain types of way, or for any reason!
Demand the best because you deserve the best!
