I love a take charge man! I really do! With my strong, Aries personality, I need someone more dominant than I am.
However, when it comes to dating (the beginning stage) it's my way or the highway!
I am not about to let anyone dictate to me the speed of things THEY feel I should be comfortable with or accept. Even if we decide to be cut buddies, I decide when and if I will do certain things. Sorry, fellas, but dropping by for head on your lunch break is reserved for my man OR someone I have been humping around with that is putting it DOWN!
Why would I give YOU the royal treatment when you haven't crowned me with anything? It's no peasants over here! Either I am the Queen of your heart or up on a pedestal one way or another in your life. Even whores have standards!
I really don't think you guys get the concept of getting sex sometimes! It requires WORK if it's with a quality woman, even if it's casual. Even the most reserved and discreet woman, like myself, will turn on her head, twerk that ass and bust it open for a real Ninja, IF Y'ALL JUST CHILL THE FUCK OUT SOMETIMES!
Yes, I know it's a million chicks out there that will do it if I won't. Blah, blah, blah..heard it all before! However, you know it's worth it! If it wasn't yo ass wouldn't be so damn mad. YOU have to play your part if you want us to play OURS!
Nah, I'm NOT over here acting like I have a platinum coated womb! That's not what it is. I want it as bad as you do. However, having to deal with attitudes and temper tantrums is the fastest way to make legs that were open like a 24 hour diner, to seal up like Fort Knox! Listen, I have a five year old. If I wanted to deal with a spoiled brat, I don't need to go anywhere to do that! Thee LAST thing I wanna think about when planning a tryst is my kid! PLEASE DON'T ACT LIKE ONE!
Women like me, hate when their spontaneity is wrecked because you're trying to dictate and control the ENTIRE situation! The whole idea is she's planning random, spontaneous sexual acts that you'll reap MUCH pleasure from. Thats the whole fucking point! You can't be preoccupied with 8,000 things and then decide you wanna participate! It won't work. By then, I guarantee you, all the wicked things she had planned, have had a chance to sit in her brain and marinate. By the time you make up your mind, her moral compass has pointed her in another direction and the wind in her sails is long GONE! You, sir, have NO ONE to blame but YOURSELF!
You guys have to step into 2014 about sex with women. We too, can call some shots when it comes to casual relationships too! You don't always have to have it go your way! You want us to go with the flow but when it's time for you to do the same, you wanna act up! Absolutely NOT!
It's Friends (plural..as in, the both of you) with benefits, not just friend! However, friends are not selfish to each other.
I'mma need y'all to stop acting up on selective women too. It's not often we decide we are feeling someone enough to throw caution to the wind and let you bed us without any strings atttached. So, when the hot librarian tells you she closes every Friday ...alone...use your head so you can use your head!
You KNOW she ain't just propositioning just anybody and everybody! You did her Hoe FAX the day you saw her bent over in that tight pencil skirt and realized how fat her ass was. It came back clean. None of your family, your boys, or your coworkers have her on their friends list, follow her on Twitter or Instagram, or vice versa. So, no one has had it in your circle!
You showed them her pic and got that, "Damn, boy, that ass fat! Who that?" You hoped to hear.
Baby girl is good money and her body count is way lower than yours or the chicks you actually wifed up in your past. So you came yo ass up and steady fucking it up!
The librarian (don't judge me, I like to see them as nice, sweet ladies so I will use them as stellar examples as much as I please) is a rare gem, dummy! Trust me, she has skills where it counts! Being smart and reading means she has done her homework! She knows how to please a man! You're so damn busy letting your ego get in the way, you can't see that potential of it all. So right now you're loosing, homie! You could be pulling her hair, and asking her whose it is and running that in the bedroom but NOOOOO, you wanna show all that damn machismo and turn her off.
You catch more flies with honey! And you get more pumpum with patience. At least pumpum thats worth something!
Slow your roll, fellas! It's okay to be the passenger and let her drive sometimes. Trust me, you'll enjoy the ride .
