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Showing posts with label 2019. Show all posts
Showing posts with label 2019. Show all posts
Tuesday, December 3, 2019
Saturday, November 30, 2019
Never Forget Your Worth!
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Being single & dating is super hard!
Single women don’t want to be embarrassed in front of their friends anymore than a woman who’s in a relationship does!
We don’t want to have only adventures of sex to tell our friends!
We want to talk about how you came in & brought us some flowers, took us out, how you try to get to know our heart, how you love us just when we are, that you have your own mind and that you take us just how we are.
We want to build with someone, love someone unconditionally, hold down & be held down, ALL THAT!
We are humans with feelings too & people need to remember we sre not these heartless, emotionless, "crazy", lonely people they peg us as!
Y'all better stop acting like it's something wrong with us, we're expecting too much and needing too much before you miss your blessing!
You can definitely switch gears with someone who you allowed to do things you usually don’t tolerate.
Don’t let anybody tell you something like, “That's not how we were in the beginning so why are you trying to switch up now?”
The answer to that is you let them try you long enough! ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!
Sometimes we try to compromise because we feel like we’re being unreasonable with our requests and because we really love somebody, but never second-guess your own judgment.
Dealbreakers are just that; dealbreakers.!
Don't let somebody tell you that you don’t deserve the best treatment because you don’t look a certain way, or because you don’t do things exactly the way they want you to all the time, or you don't allow them to treat you a certain types of way, or for any reason!
Demand the best because you deserve the best!
Monday, June 17, 2019
I'm Not Bitter, I'm Mad as Hell!
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I don’t want anybody calling me bitter because I’m frustrated and fed up.
PERIOD!
Everybody can get mad at some point in their life.
Just because I’m a black woman, and unapologetically so, does not mean you get to call me bitter.
To my sistahs: You don’t have to hold in everything you feel to appease anybody. I am a firm believer in expression and I always will be.
Everybody in this world can express emotion like hurt, disappointment, sadness , and anger with no judgement or consequence, except the black woman and it’s unfair.
We are the most unloved, unurtured, uncared for, disrespected people on the entire planet.
Nope, I don’t want to talk about it all the time.
We don’t always seek attention either.
I just want to be mad sometimes and be left in my peace to be mad.
I just felt like this still needed to be said.
I know somewhere someone feels JUST like this and is holding it in so they don’t look like an angry, black woman but fuck that; judge me all you want but guess who stopped caring?
I’ll always be good though because, well, I am a black woman after all.
If nothing else they say about us is true, we always recover!
#readjustingmycrown 👑
#vibratinghigher
#MishysMusings
#rarein360 (at Lithonia, Georgia)
https://www.instagram.com/p/Bx0AVaAB7hm/?igshid=1ws4b6qf1lsus
PERIOD!
Everybody can get mad at some point in their life.
Just because I’m a black woman, and unapologetically so, does not mean you get to call me bitter.
To my sistahs: You don’t have to hold in everything you feel to appease anybody. I am a firm believer in expression and I always will be.
Everybody in this world can express emotion like hurt, disappointment, sadness , and anger with no judgement or consequence, except the black woman and it’s unfair.
We are the most unloved, unurtured, uncared for, disrespected people on the entire planet.
Nope, I don’t want to talk about it all the time.
We don’t always seek attention either.
I just want to be mad sometimes and be left in my peace to be mad.
I just felt like this still needed to be said.
I know somewhere someone feels JUST like this and is holding it in so they don’t look like an angry, black woman but fuck that; judge me all you want but guess who stopped caring?
I’ll always be good though because, well, I am a black woman after all.
If nothing else they say about us is true, we always recover!
#readjustingmycrown 👑
#vibratinghigher
#MishysMusings
#rarein360 (at Lithonia, Georgia)
https://www.instagram.com/p/Bx0AVaAB7hm/?igshid=1ws4b6qf1lsus
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